Moving, Science, and My Availability

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Feb 222011
 

As I let you know in this blog post, I am moving from the Austin area to the Houston area on Feb 28. Because of the circumstances of the move, we didn’t start making arrangements until Feb 16, so it’s insta-crunch-time for sorting and packing. Saturday, I did Scientific Experiment One: stay logged in for phone sex and take calls according to my normal schedule, and see if I can get a few things packed between calls. Outcomes for Scientific Experiment One: * study methodology: wild success – outcome was crystal clear * ability to log in: miserable abject failure – I got nothing packed at all Basically, my logged-in pattern for taking calls is that between calls, I rest, answer emails, browse interesting links [read more...]

/yawn /snuggle

 issues, limits, phone sex  1 Response »
Feb 152011
 

After a mere two days of cam work, I find myself far too snuggly to jump on cam tonight… Is is allergies? Relief after having been hella nervous? Simple sleep deprivation? Probably yes to all three. So I’ll be on tonight on the phones but not on cam, probably… Or I’ll keep lying here being sleepy and snuggly and stretchy…

Heartbreak and Phone Sex, Part V

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Feb 032011
 

He found my blog, then my Facebook, and asked if we could do pay-to-view emails instead of phone calls, to help him get to know me first, and because his funds were limited. I’ve been in a writing mood lately, so it seemed like a good fit: I could write, and productively fill time between calls with guaranteed income. I told him not to expect immediate turnarounds, but I was in. His first email described me giving him a back rub, encouraging him, and then sucking him off before he fell asleep, neglecting his promise to go down on me, overwhelmed by sheer bliss. He wanted my reply to be me, the next morning, helping him make good on his promise by showing him exactly [read more...]

Meeting In Person

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Feb 012011
 

Because I am non-monogamous, I’ve had callers ask if I would ever consider meeting them in person. For a platonic lunch? Sure. For hours on end of rambunctious sex? That’s tricky. A favorite caller of mine is going to be in town this summer, and asked me to write out my realistic caveats and expectations for meeting in person. I’ve been musing about the topic since I became a phone sex operator, so it’s about damn time I put together a blog post already. The trickiness boils down to this: because of the combination of (a) my mysterious neurological vertigo and (b) my dependence on phone sex to pay the bills, I protect my time and energy very carefully to ensure that I am available [read more...]

Storing Nuts and Striking Irons

 honesty, issues, limits, phone sex  1 Response »
Dec 072010
 

A recent chat exchange (edited for readability): Him: It sounds as if you’ve been pushing yourself quite a bit lately as well Galiana: Maybe… it’s hard to say no because I like this work Him: And I’m sure you’re storing nuts for the winter as well Him: Have to strike when the iron’s hot and all that Galiana: Exactly Galiana: Perfect way to put it Him: And as Warren Zevon said, “I’ll sleep when I’m dead” Galiana: Yes Galiana: I’ve heard December is busy, January is slower Galiana: I don’t want to push myself too hard Galiana: But I don’t want to miss out either Galiana: It’s trixie I’m not alone with this dilemma. It is shared, not just with phone sex operators, but with [read more...]

Limits

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Nov 132010
 

I just realized that I can list my limits here on my blog and link to that from my listings. I don’t want to list my off-limits activities in my listings, because then people searching for those things find me! The list of what I don’t find sexy to talk about lines up fairly well with NiteFlirt’s Terms of Service (from the Adult Content Policy). So here are the things that I will not discuss over the phone, and a little explanation about them: Bestiality: a hard limit of mine personally – no sex with animals, period. I have no sexy response to it. Incest: also a hard limit of mine personally – no sex with family, period. For me, that extends to things like [read more...]

Analysis of a Phone Sex Break Up

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Nov 082010
 

I try to keep this blog focused on positive things for a few reasons: The blog should reflect the same aspects of my personality as I reflect on-phone, and I always make sure I’m in a positive space before I log in to take phone sex calls I want to remember the positive things more than I want to remember the negative ones I have other resources to process negative things: family, friends, and a therapist I used to see who I could see again if I wished I don’t want negative images of me stuck in your mind, because I want you to see me as: smart, fun, creative, sex-positive, and self-assured-but-with-random-incongruous-bouts-of-insecurity But I can’t shake this call by my usual channels: I think [read more...]

Not Til I’m Ready

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Oct 302010
 

This morning, I logged in for 2 minutes, then realized that my allergy medicine hadn’t quite kicked in enough for me to feel sexy (Central Texas is famous for fall/winter allergies), so I logged back out. “Agent Jones” caught me on chat during that 2-minute open window and answered some questions about my listings, which was super helpful. Then he asked if we could play. At the time, the thought of engaging sexual energies sounded like work. Now don’t get me wrong, Jones is one of my favorite callers (his role plays have been featured here a lot), and he gives me his opinions on my listings and pay-to-view offerings, so if anybody could have tickled my fancy, it would have been Jones. But I [read more...]

Heartbreak and Phone Sex, Part III

 heartbreak, other PSOs, phone sex, PSO issues  9 Responses »
Oct 192010
 

Part I was about a first -time caller who captured my concern. Part II was about a regular caller who may have been a two-way addiction. Part III, today’s blog, is about my co-workers, other phone sex operators (PSOs). I had a new caller over the weekend, we’ll call him “Evanston Crush” because he lived part of his life in Evanston, where I went to college (Go Cats!). He’d been reading my blog for two weeks, trying to resist calling me because he didn’t want to know if the persona in his head was different than the reality (which I find endearing and flattering). We had a really sexy call: he asked me about my open marriage, how I pick lovers, how I’ve explored to  [read more...]

Journeying and Returning

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Oct 062010
 

Today’s questions: What do you do between calls? Is it hard to hang up with one guy with one fantasy and have another one call with a different fantasy? How do you recharge if a call wipes you out? I love symbolism, mythology, archetypes, and stories. The more you know, the greater the probability that something you feel or do can be better explained or understood. Today’s answers are brought to you by my pitifully small knowledge of faery lore and shamanic journeying. If you’re taking a shamanic journey, or traveling to the faery world, don’t eat while you’re there. The act of eating while in another world anchors your body to that place. The girl in Spirited Away changed when she ate, and Coraline never should [read more...]

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