Mar 282012
 
Not That Kind of GFE

The grand experiment was: see if I can successfully travel to meet an out-of-town lover for a multi-day romp, with some resting time built in. The first five days were a smashing success: I rested up after traveling, then we romped to our hearts’ delights in a sunny, warm, cozy place with every creature comfort I could have asked for. I got gussied up with straight hair and red red lips for our first sexy day: He likes me in just a bra and panties. And then I played the part of the good mistress and put on my maybe-we’re-just-colleagues outfit for scrumptious dining out about town (his wife knows about me – I’m more of an extra in their open marriage than a mistress, [read more...]

Apr 122011
 

I used to think that I did things in weird ways until I worked with dozens of programmers. Then I learned that most people do things in their own unique fashion, and that if you give them room to do things their way, often it will be most efficient for them. When I have a big, complicated project looming — like, for example, rewriting all my listings — I need to ponder it a while before I actually start making changes. I am currently in my mulling phase, which means I’m pleasantly distracting myself by importing my transaction detail into an Access database , and automating the process to parse customer name and transaction type. Inner Data Analyst: It’s about frikkin’ time! The Excel process [read more...]

Feb 112011
 
Lover Experience

In the midst of sorting through my pictures from September’s photo shoot, I found one that I hadn’t focused on before, but now it’s my current favorite picture of myself: First of all, that babydoll has a bra strap around back, so dang, my boobs look amazingly perky for DDs (did I mention that I got fitted for a bra and found out that I’m a DD, not a D like I thought? Crazy.) Then the soft purple fabric, with the soft scarf-looking headband, and the flowing gypsy-ish earrings, and my flowing gypsy-ish wavy hair … all together, it’s a soft look physically. But the real attraction for me is my expression: I look as if I am enjoying the company of whoever I am [read more...]

Oct 252010
 

I’ve thought about converting one of my lower-volume listings to advertise “girlfriend experience” (aka GFE in the biz) (…she says as though she’s been in the biz longer than 3 months and 10 days…). The concept is that we chat and get to know each other, keep up with each others’ lives, as well as have smokin’ hot phone sex. I’m grateful to say that I’ve had experiences like that with some people already – I feel like I have a sense of their lives, and the more often they call, the more in tune I am to what pleases them sexually. But those have happened naturally, so it feels sort of weird to me to advertise that. What if I find someone boring? (That [read more...]